Ruby (Wei-ju) Chen
Humanities 8
ESLR Writing
3/6/12
Inner Abilities
We are born, we grow older, and then we say goodbye to life. The truth might sound brief and negative, just like life may seem sometimes – but somewhere in between those three stages, you have time to achieve remarkable things. This belief is related to the five ESLRs: characteristics and attitudes of life that can help you find the best of your ability. ESLRs summarize many of the direct choices to make in order to improve yourself as an independent person. The five categories include Sense of Self, the act of developing and showing a confident and expressive nature; Respect For All, regarding and appreciating people of different nationalities or personalities for who they originally are; Academic Excellence, contributing time for education and striving for intellectual achievements; Balance in Life, maintaining a steady schedule of leisure and work; and Dedicated Service, owning awareness of the needs of the community and never hesitating to offer help. According to me, ESLRs apply to me in many different situations almost every day. I have been growing and learning consistently for over a decade, and the ESLRs also count as a topic I have had exposure to as a purposeful form of advice. A major part of my life is now related to appropriate actions and correct decisions, which the ESLRs help me realize.
One ESLR that encourages me to be considerate would be Respect For All. I’d grasped the idea of individuals believing each and every person should be treated as an equal, and I recognize this as a vital subject. All my life, I have studied in international schools with countless multi-cultural peers. In my own childhood not long ago, children used to be blinded by joy of simply earning playmates, preventing them from registering the vast differences in facial features or clashing personalities. To me, that will always be the purest, truest kind of devotion. Reality reminds us that good things never last. As soon as time flies by and the realization of differences floods in, people begin to notice the flaws in their surroundings and morph into groups of similarities. Fear of exclusion comes with no respect. While I grew up living in one environment after the other, racism was an uncommon problem in the passing years due to all our multi-cultural peers, but it still existed in many forms. Fortunately, I had – and still have – enough experience to push aside the wrong choices and understand that nobody should be judged by appearances alone. My related belief is that everyone should be appreciated for both their perfections and their imperfections, because real friendship and trust comes from respect. I easily accept people and friends of different cultures and personalities, because I am fully aware of how special the rest of the world is.
An additional ESLR that appears often in my personality is Balance in Life. In my case, this was an ESLR of which I had discovered my weaknesses, strived for, and vastly improved on. In the first semester of 8th grade, I was oblivious of the fact that procrastination could take up hours of my time. Schoolwork was multiplying by the week, and was something I was concerned about. Time became essential, but my error was how I chose to spend it by considering my hobbies as a first priority. I soon discovered the ignorance of that idea, because the hours I saved for sleep had decreased rapidly and homework dragged me late into the night. It affected my health as well, since I found myself feeling exhausted and worn out almost every day. Realizing my mistakes made me aware that my life was unstable and could easily fall apart. I decided to organize the separate pieces of my days and fit them into a new agenda in order to lead a more meaningful, beneficial life. Academics became one of my main focuses, because I understood time management and how nothing would seem complete unless there was effort involved. The select classes I had apart from school – violin and Mandarin – also turned out to be important to me as both entertainment and an effective stress-increasing strategy, because I understood how all the subjects in which I gain experience could be somehow used in my future.
Sense of Self is an ESLR that builds my awareness of how I act in the presence of others. Everyone judges people by their actions, which promotes my idea of appearing respectful and having knowledge of how to behave in either major problems or good situations. Sense of Self also defines the ability of being confident and sure of oneself. I believe I have really learned from experience in various moments of my life, no matter if it is just a typical day at school or during a strong disagreement with my sibling. It all takes courage and the certainty of my personal opinion. Throughout my years in school so far, I took risks that involved things as simple as volunteering for a role in an elementary performance, or stepping out to represent my grade by giving a speech to parents. To me, all those acts had been big risks and I was petrified with fear every time, but my efforts slowly nudged away any shyness or obstacles in my path towards bravery, leaving me surprised to observe how much more daring I could become after each involvement.
With all these main characteristics and behaviors by my side, I could figure out the right and wrong parts of life by asking myself one question: Am I a successful person? I assumed an effective strategy of motivation would be to set a goal for myself, based on the five categories of the ESLRs. My goal for this year, 2012, would be to adopt more focus and determination for the important events that are sure to happen someday, such as exams and schoolwork or organizing future activities for a community. This is because I often feel like events could possibly turn out a thousand times better than how they actually resulted, so I want to make that change possible to create a difference between my past and my future. The ESLRs might not have seemed clear to me in my younger years, but as soon as I was repeatedly exposed to them, I realized everything any parent or teacher encouraged me to learn simply revolved around these life skills. Success can never come without the ability to understand everything else that occurs in our single short life. Even if there are friends to surround you and parents to support you, the stages of growing up needs to be completed all by yourself in order to fully believe that your life is worth living and belongs to you completely.